Peer pressure is something every young person experiences at some point. Whether it’s choosing what to wear, how to act, or even deciding whether to engage in risky behaviors, the influence of peers can be powerful — for better or for worse.
Peer Pressure Comes in Different Forms
Peer pressure doesn’t always come in the form of someone saying, “Do this, or else.” Many young people experience peer pressure without even realizing it. Direct peer pressure involves a clear invitation or dares—such as being encouraged to skip class, try a substance, or participate in bullying. Indirect peer pressure is more subtle, such as feeling the need to wear certain clothes, act a certain way, or join in on something because “everyone else is doing it.” With the influence of social media, the pressure to conform is more intense than ever, as teens often compare themselves to curated, filtered lives online. Recognizing the many ways peer pressure shows up is the first step in learning how to resist it.